I’ve realized over the years that one is more appealing to me than the other. I love me some male rhythm and blues because I feel like the male is singing to me. Most of the time I can’t relate to what the female R&B singer is talking about, nowadays. It seems as if the female R&B singer is always singing about being battered or cheated on, who wants to keep hearing that? Not me. The male R&B singer most of the time sings about things that entice me, which is what I like. I mean there are some that bitch and moan too but, not as much. Enough of my thoughts I want to hear from you! Do you feel the same as me or different?